Domina Deville

Our 12th dominatrix interview features Domina Deville of Solihull, in the West Midlands…

How did you become a Dominatrix?

In the words of, Lady Gaga, I was born this way. I have only ever been a Domme, from my first sexual experience at 16, to all my further personal & professional relationships. But if you mean professionally, 10yrs ago, I went to a party at the Facility in Birmingham and had my mind opened.

Where in the UK are you based?

Currently working from my own chambers in Solihull in Birmingham.

Tell us about your playspace

Compact and Bijou, I was working rurally from a great space but had some bad luck over the winter and lost the roof, so I relocated to central Solihull, it is smaller, but busier, fully equipped, for electrics, medical, a levels, and sissification, with heels, wigs, clothes etc… it even has a wrestling room and a boudoir room for cuckolding.

Do you tour other parts of the UK?

Occasionally, London, usually with another Domme to keep me company.

How would you describe your domination style?

My domination style changes with my mood/sub/session constraints. I can be very sensual or gentle with newbies, I can be deeply sadistic, I can be mischievously deviant or all of the above. No session is formulaic or the same. It keeps it fresh for both myself and my victims/subs – I do like a bit of humour though & I enjoy subs that can stay after a session for a de-brief. I love to explore the psychology of their kink switch.

What are your personal favourite activities?

I would be lying if I said I don’t enjoy fisting my male subs! But I genuinely am very curious in nature and I love it all. There isn’t any kink I have personally come across yet that I can’t find some pleasure in. But with female subs, I enjoy fucking them until they can no longer speak, just drool and twitch and await their next orgasm.

What kind of outfits do you like to wear during a session?

Being a BBW Domme, I love the look of latex but after 20mins of hip thrusting in a strapon, it’s no longer feeing sexy. I tend to go for leather (breathable and the smell is heavenly) or wet look outfits. Shorter the better as I don’t wear undies in session, that way everything can breathe (except the sub maybe).

Do you offer online or phone domination?

I do online and phone domination but it’s not my favourite as there is a disconnect there and I have caught subs lying. I get that for some subs it is fantasy only, but for me, it is my life 24/7.

Do you offer financial domination?

Kind of? I have a couple of 24/7 TPE slaves, and I control their being, which includes finances. But if you mean findom? Then no. I think you have to have a certain appeal for that to work.

What qualities do you look for in a submissive?

First and foremost, HONESTY. I cannot emphasise enough how important honesty is in a D/s relationship. Loyalty is also good. Eagerness to please.

Do you have any particularly memorable or unusual session experiences you would like to share?

I loved my Summer Slutstival, it had a really hedonistic vibe to it, lots of subs and Mistresses in a room with me acting as ringmaster. It turned into a bit of a bi-orgy. Once my new studios are built, I am going to have regular parties. There’s something about them, it’s like a live action porno in front of you.

Do you sell video clips? If so, where can our readers find them?

I am not a massive fan of the clips sites. I tried a few on ClipsFatale, but they kept on going down, so I stopped, I think there are 4 on there now. Most of my stuff I post on Twitter for free. Clips sites are also a lot of admin and then they take 40%. I do sell custom clips though, so just DM me on Twitter and I’ll film whatever your deviant desires are. I’m laughing at myself here, as I have just remembered I have arranged to shoot with Jodie Jizz and Sammie Slut soon.

Are the any other websites you would like to tell us about?

Well obviously my website is and some of the films I made with Chloe Davis are on and if you are new to kink, get yourself a account.

What’s the best way for potential clients to get in touch with you?

Direct Message (DM) on Twitter @DominaDeville or email

What are your interests beyond BDSM?

I have studied business, fine art, media and photography. I was a telecoms switch engineer, graphic designer and a stand-up comedian, so I am a great conversationalist, great at interior design and I’m a fantastic cook. I have been driving since I was 13, so I love long car journeys around Europe, especially with Chloe Davis, we can talk for days, she’s also a great in car DJ.

What do you love and hate about the femdom community?

I love the diversity, the lack of judgement, the freedom that kink can bring – even when heavily restrained ;-). I love watching a subs journey.

I hate the cliques, drama and gossip that I can see online between Dommes. Unless someone is doing something not SSC (safe, sane or consensual) then I try to rise above. But I guess some people’s egos can’t handle the jealousy and they have to spread disharmony. For the most part it’s not like that, but when I do see it, it disappoints me. I like to try and support and lift my sister Dommes up.

Finally, if you had a motto to live by, what would it be?

Never argue with idiots, they drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.