Our 12th dominatrix interview features Domina Deville of Solihull, in the West Midlands…
In the words of, Lady Gaga, I was born this way. I have only ever been a Domme, from my first sexual experience at 16, to all my further personal & professional relationships. But if you mean professionally, 10yrs ago, I went to a party at the Facility in Birmingham and had my mind opened.
Currently working from my own chambers in Solihull in Birmingham.
Compact and Bijou, I was working rurally from a great space but had some bad luck over the winter and lost the roof, so I relocated to central Solihull, it is smaller, but busier, fully equipped, for electrics, medical, a levels, and sissification, with heels, wigs, clothes etc… it even has a wrestling room and a boudoir room for cuckolding.
Occasionally, London, usually with another Domme to keep me company.
My domination style changes with my mood/sub/session constraints. I can be very sensual or gentle with newbies, I can be deeply sadistic, I can be mischievously deviant or all of the above. No session is formulaic or the same. It keeps it fresh for both myself and my victims/subs – I do like a bit of humour though & I enjoy subs that can stay after a session for a de-brief. I love to explore the psychology of their kink switch.
I would be lying if I said I don’t enjoy fisting my male subs! But I genuinely am very curious in nature and I love it all. There isn’t any kink I have personally come across yet that I can’t find some pleasure in. But with female subs, I enjoy fucking them until they can no longer speak, just drool and twitch and await their next orgasm.
Being a BBW Domme, I love the look of latex but after 20mins of hip thrusting in a strapon, it’s no longer feeing sexy. I tend to go for leather (breathable and the smell is heavenly) or wet look outfits. Shorter the better as I don’t wear undies in session, that way everything can breathe (except the sub maybe).
I do online and phone domination but it’s not my favourite as there is a disconnect there and I have caught subs lying. I get that for some subs it is fantasy only, but for me, it is my life 24/7.
Kind of? I have a couple of 24/7 TPE slaves, and I control their being, which includes finances. But if you mean findom? Then no. I think you have to have a certain appeal for that to work.
First and foremost, HONESTY. I cannot emphasise enough how important honesty is in a D/s relationship. Loyalty is also good. Eagerness to please.
I loved my Summer Slutstival, it had a really hedonistic vibe to it, lots of subs and Mistresses in a room with me acting as ringmaster. It turned into a bit of a bi-orgy. Once my new studios are built, I am going to have regular parties. There’s something about them, it’s like a live action porno in front of you.
I am not a massive fan of the clips sites. I tried a few on ClipsFatale, but they kept on going down, so I stopped, I think there are 4 on there now. Most of my stuff I post on Twitter for free. Clips sites are also a lot of admin and then they take 40%. I do sell custom clips though, so just DM me on Twitter and I’ll film whatever your deviant desires are. I’m laughing at myself here, as I have just remembered I have arranged to shoot with Jodie Jizz and Sammie Slut soon.
Direct Message (DM) on Twitter @DominaDeville or email UseMeDomina@gmail.com
I have studied business, fine art, media and photography. I was a telecoms switch engineer, graphic designer and a stand-up comedian, so I am a great conversationalist, great at interior design and I’m a fantastic cook. I have been driving since I was 13, so I love long car journeys around Europe, especially with Chloe Davis, we can talk for days, she’s also a great in car DJ.
I love the diversity, the lack of judgement, the freedom that kink can bring – even when heavily restrained ;-). I love watching a subs journey.
I hate the cliques, drama and gossip that I can see online between Dommes. Unless someone is doing something not SSC (safe, sane or consensual) then I try to rise above. But I guess some people’s egos can’t handle the jealousy and they have to spread disharmony. For the most part it’s not like that, but when I do see it, it disappoints me. I like to try and support and lift my sister Dommes up.
Never argue with idiots, they drag you down to their level and then beat you with experience.